
in the back of a pickup truck on a warm day was always a special treat. Our
baby cribs were covered with bright colored lead-based paint. We had no
childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors, or cabinets, and when we rode
our bikes, we had no helmets. Not to mention hitchhiking to town as a young
kid!) We drank water from the garden hose and not from a bottle. Horrors.
We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then rode down
the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the
bushes a few times we learned to solve the problem.
We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back
when the streetlights came on. No one was able to reach us all day. No cell
phones. Unthinkable. We played dodgeball and sometimes the ball would really
hurt. We got cut and broke bones and broke teeth, and there were no law
suits from these accidents. They were accidents. No one was to blame, but
us. Remember accidents? We had fights and punched each other and got black
and blue and learned to get over it.
We ate cupcakes, bread and butter, and drank sugar soda but we were never
overweight...we were always outside playing. We shared one grape soda with
four friends, from one bottle and no one died from this.
We did not have Playstations, Nintendo 64, X-Boxes, video games at all, 99
channels on cable, video tape movies, surround sound, personal cell phones,
Personal Computers, Internet chat rooms ... we had friends. We went outside
and found them. We rode bikes or walked to a friend's home and knocked on
the door, or rung the bell or just walked in and talked to them.
Imagine such a thing. Without asking a parent! By ourselves! Out there in
the cold cruel world! Without a guardian.
How did we do it? We made up games with sticks and tennis balls and ate
worms and although we were told it would happen, we did not put out very
many eyes, nor did the worms live inside us forever. Little League had
tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't, had to learn to
deal with disappointment..... Some students weren't as smart as others so
they failed a grade and were held back to
repeat the same grade.....Horrors. Tests were not adjusted for any reason.
Our actions were our own. Consequences were expected.
No one to hide behind. The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke a law
was unheard of. They actually sided with the law, imagine that! This
generation has produced some of the best risk-takers and problem
solvers and inventors, ever. The past 50 years has been an explosion of
innovation and new ideas. We had freedom, failure, success and
responsibility, and we learned how to deal with it all. And you're one of
them. Congratulations!
We
were lucky
to grow up as kids, before lawyers and government regulated our lives, for
our own good .

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